This is part of being 'side sexual' That is, no anal just mutual hand jobs, frottage, grinding, sucking, kissing and/or rimming. Some guys are not into anal=I am not judging.
a Saprix753 :I for one appreciate you not judging. To me this is hotter than anal. LOVE non-penetrative sex with body-on-body, kissing nipple play, grinding on dick and ass!