a Horny_Gothgirl :As a world traveler and an educated individual, I have great respect for the feminine gender because of their role in society. However, I have a firm belief that every person is the “master “of their own destiny and the choices they make usually determine their fate. You chose to be a part of this man’s life and therefore, you have to accept the consequences. A Templar Knight once told an archeologist who was seeking the “Holy Grail” to “choose wisely because it would determine the difference between life and death. I always remembered that quote and thought carefully about a situation before making a “choice”. Submitted as a respectful comment; Pendragon23